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Crazy Time of Year: Travel Softball Tryouts

Published on Wednesday, 25 July 2018 14:19 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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confused 1It’s the crazy time of year in the world of travel softball.  As a coach I receive numerous emails, texts and phone calls daily concerning tryouts for the coming year.  Every year that begins earlier and earlier.  “How many spots do you have open?”  “Are you looking for a shortstop?”  “What’s your tourney schedule looking like?”  “My daughter is an all-conference superstar in high school; just wanted to let you know that before tryouts.”  “Can my daughter get a private tryout?”  

That last question is probably the most popular.  I get it.  Most travel clubs conduct their tryouts during the same dates and often times, so it’s difficult or impossible to make them all.  I had a relatively easy time as a parent with my youngest daughter with tryouts.  But for my middle daughter, it was more stressful.  We want what’s best for our baby girls, so I remind myself each year of the anxiety parents and players are experiencing.

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Let Them Grow Up

Published on Tuesday, 26 June 2018 20:21 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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2016 coaching indy 2Since the last post was a bit negative, I thought I would write a little something more typical of this blog.  Every year I meet with my 16u team’s parents and discuss the college recruiting process as well as the team and club rules.  I encourage them to read some of my previous posts such as, “When Parents Wave Red Flags.”  We’ve just finished our second tourney (Michigan’s first weekend is June 14-17) and my parents have been a pleasure, as have the players.


Get to the field on time, say good bye to their parents, meet me at my car, carry the equipment together to the field, warm up, play the game, brief post-game meeting, carry equipment back to my car and then they can talk to their parents.  No helicoptering near the dugout.  Take it easy on the umpires (minor chirping only….LOL).  They get it.  And that makes my job a lot easier.  No red flags waving so far.

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Softball Burnout

Published on Tuesday, 24 October 2017 13:43 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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In recent years I've seen more softball players experience burnout.  Last year there were 3 (varsity level) players from our club who had the ability to play at the collegiate level, but instead chose to quit playing travel ball.  I'm not sure if they're even going to play for their schools this year.

Our High School tryouts are the 2nd week of March.  After that, their next break won't be until the middle of October.  Think about that!

It pains me to see players go through this, because it's mostly preventable.  Yet more and more fellow coaches tell me of high school aged talented players who've burned out and quit the game.  There are many factors that lead to this such as year round practicing & training, college camps and tournaments. 

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Fall Ball: What I Hate and Like

Published on Thursday, 31 August 2017 15:25 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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You have tryouts, pick your team, collect money, have a few practices and jump right back into playing tournaments.  It’s like summer softball never ended.  That is except for the change in weather, girls going back to school and the constant player availability problems.  

The sport has grown so much that some teams play as many tournaments in the fall as they do during the summer.  You try to determine which tournaments to attend based on cost, exposure opportunities and the talent level of your team.  After that is figured out, because they fill up quickly, you pay and register your team.  Then it is time to practice.  Easy enough, right?

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Photo of our club inter-squad scrimmage day in the fall of 2016 (16u & 18u)

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The True Cost of Travel Softball

Published on Friday, 22 July 2016 19:41 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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I’ve been putting off writing this article for a few reasons. It will likely be misinterpreted by some people, while possibly offending others. Regardless, I can’t put if off any longer. My goal for this post is to help parents make the best decisions for their daughters and families concerning their options on playing travel softball.  I will even share with you how much I paid for my youngest daughter's travel softball career.

First of all, I am a strong advocate for travel softball. Two of my daughters played travel softball at different levels for years. That is where they learned the game, fundamental and advanced skills, how to handle failure and success, how to deal with getting cut, how to earn playing time and to compete against other teams. They did not learn these things in the recreation league and certainly not in school.

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All You Need To Know About College Softball Camps

Published on Wednesday, 13 January 2016 13:50 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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I want to help you by sharing my thoughts on college softball camps.  Through the years my daughter attended too many to count or name and now she works them as a member of her college softball team.  Today as a 16U travel coach I am encouraging my players to attend camps.  

Which ones?  How many?  What types?  Why?  Those are some of the most common questions I’m asked.  I’ll answer these and more in this article, which I hope you will share with other parents in your softball circles.  

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When Parents Wave Red Flags

Published on Monday, 13 July 2015 20:11 | Written by Greg Cruthers
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Another weekend of the 2015 summer travel softball season has just passed.  And with it, sadly, more stories of the unbelievable behavior of parents.  From a coach jumping a fence to break up a fight to a mom using her vehicle to block the tournament gate, you cannot make up the kind of lunacy that happens all too frequently at youth sporting events.

I had a long conversation with a couple of Division 1 college coaches this weekend who reiterated, with emphasis, what I’ve been told over recent years:  PARENTS ARE BEING RECRUITED TOO! 

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